Recommended Books for Emotional Wellness and Personal Growth
Books
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Relationships:
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Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship by Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT and Harville Hendrix PhD
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Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love by Sue Johnson
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The New Rules of Marriage: What You Need to Know to Make Love Work by Terrence Real
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The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman
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We Do by Stant Tatkin
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Mating In Captivity by Esther Perel
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Why Won’t You Apologize? by Harriet Lerner
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The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner
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Five Minute Relationship Repair by Susan Campbell & John Grey
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The Better Boundaries Workbook by Sharon Martin
Mindfulness/Self-Compassion:
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Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook: Practical DBT Exercises for Learning Mindfulness, Interpersonal Effectiveness, Emotion Regulation, & Distress Tolerance by Matthew Mc Kay, Jeffrey C. Wood, and Jeffrey Brantley
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Peace Is Every Step: The Path of Mindfulness in Everyday Life by Thich Nhat Hanh and Arnold Kotler
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NO MUD, NO LOTUS: The Art of Transforming Suffering by Thich Nhat Hanh
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The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook by Kristin Neff & Christopher Germer
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Meditation for the Fidgety Skeptic by Dan Harris
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The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
Personal Growth:
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Rising Strong: How the Ability to Reset Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead by Brené Brown
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Atlas of the Heart by Brene Brown
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The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown
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Untamed by Glennon Doyle
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The Highly Sensitive Person by Elaine N. Aron
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Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb
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The Road Less Traveled by Scott Peck
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Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl
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How People Change by Allen Wheelis
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Necessary Losses: The Loves, Illusions, Dependencies, and Impossible Expectations That All of Us Have to Give Up in Order to Grow by Judith Viorst
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Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself by Melody Beattie
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The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse by Charlie Mackesy
Eating Disorders:
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Life Without Ed: How One Woman Declared Independence from Her Eating Disorder and How You Can Too by Jenni Schaefer
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Eating in the Light of the Moon: How Women Can Transform Their Relationship with Food Through Myths, Metaphors, and Storytelling by Anita A. Johnston PhD.
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Women Food and God: An Unexpected Path to Almost Everything by Geneen Roth
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Mothers Daughters & Body Image by Hillary L. McBride
Trauma:
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The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D
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The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker
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What Happened to You? By Bruce Perry & Oprah Winfrey
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The Drama of the Gifted Child by Allice Miller
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Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement That Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free by Linda Klein
Children’s Books About Feelings:
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The Way I Feel by Janan Cain
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My Many Colored Days by Dr. Seuss
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Feelings by Bobbi and Dani Jo Brandt (written by kids for kids)
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I’m Happy-Sad by Lory Britain (teaches kids how it’s ok to have more than 1 feeling)
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Move Your Mood by Brenda Miles & Colleen Patterson
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The Color Monster: A Pop-Up Book of Feelings by Anna Llenas
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In My Heart: A Book of Feelings by Jo Witek
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How Are You Peeling: Foods with Moods by Saxton Freymann
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Grumpy Monkey by Suzanne Lang
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The Very Cranky Bear by Nick Bland
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If You’re Angry and You Know It! by Cecily Kaiser (anger)
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The Angry Ninja by Mary Nhin (anger)
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Train Your Angry Dragon by Steve Herman (anger)
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Roaring Mad Riley by Allison Szczecinski (anger)
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I Am Stronger Than Anger by Elizabeth Cole (anger)
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A Little Spot of Anger by Diane Alber (anger)
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Can Quilliam Learn to Control His Temper? (anger)
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Worry Says What? by Allison Edwards (anxiety)
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Worries are Not Forever by Elizabeth Verdick (anxiety)
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Ruby Finds a Worry by Tom Percival (anxiety)
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Allie the Alligator Gets Anxious (anxiety)
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Jabari Jumps by Gaia Cornwall (scared and brave)
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When Sadness is at Your Door by Eva Eland (sad)
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Big Boys Cry by Jonty Howley
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Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No-Good, Very Bad Day by Judith Viorst
Children’s Books For Building Strong Minds and Relationships
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Invisible String by Patrice Karst (separation anxiety)
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When I Miss You by Maude Spelman(separation anxiety)
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I Love You Through and Through by Bernadette Rossetti-Shustak
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I Love You Because You’re You by Liza Baker
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No Matter What by Debi Gliori
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Full, Full, Full of Love by Trish Cooke
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Monster Trouble! by Lane Fredrickson (fear of monsters at night)
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The Little Brute Family by Russell Hoban (about kindness)
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The Lap Snatcher by Bruce Coville (about accepting a new sibling)
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Grow Happy by Jon Lasser (making positive choices)
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Positive Ninja by Mary Nhin
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What Should Danny Do? (The Power to Choose Series) by Adir Levy and Ganit Levy
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Dear Girl by Amy & Paris Rosenthal
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A Boy Like You by Frank Murphy
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My Mouth is a Volcano! by Julia Cook
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Waiting is Not Easy by Mo Willems
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Talk and Work it Out by Cheri Meiners
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Try and Stick with It by Cheri Meiners
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Thank You Body, Thank You Heart by Jennifer Harper
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I Like Myself! By Karen Beaumont (self-esteem)
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Be You! by Peter Reynolds (self-esteem)
Children’s Books for Mindfulness and Calming Down:
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The Rabbit Listened by Cori Doerrfeld
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Alphabreaths by Christopher Willard & Daniel Rechtschaffen (mindful breathing exercises)
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Breathing Makes it Better by Christopher Willard & Wendy O’ Leary
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The Listening Walk by Paul Showers (mindful listening)
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Visiting Feelings by Lauren Rubenstein (teaching how feelings come and go)
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Sitting Still Like a Frog Mindfulness Exercises for Kids by Eline Snile
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Cool Down and Work Through Anger by Cheri Meiners
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Hands are Not for Hitting by Martine Agassi
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What To Do When You Feel Like Hitting: A No Hitting Book for Toddlers by Cara Goodwin
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Teeth are Not for Biting by Elizabeth Verdick
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Little Monkey Calms Down by Michael Dahl
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My Moods, My Choices Flip Book
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Breathe Like a Bear by Kira Willey
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I am Peace by Susan Verde
Prayer & Spirituality:
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Let Your Life Speak: Listening for the Voice of Vocationby Parker Palmer
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God Can't: How to Believe in God and Love after Tragedy, Abuse, and Other Evils by Thomas Oord
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The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World by John Mark Comer
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Accidental Saints: Finding God in All the Wrong People by Nadia Bolz-Weber
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How to Be Here: A Guide to Creating a Life Worth Living by Rob Bell